Imagine giving your teen the keys to a car without them ever learning how to drive or about the responsibility of having a license. I’m willing to bet that thought alone gives you a feeling of fear and worry.
When teens start dating, it’s like they are getting the keys to the world of relationships, and we trust their ability to navigate the road ahead of them. But the problem is that hearts, unlike roads, don’t display signs that say “stop,” “under construction,” or “do not enter,” and that’s how many teens find themselves in abusive relationships.
The statistics say that 1.5 million teens experience some form of dating abuse each year. Many young people find themselves in dangerous situations with the person they have trusted and who says they love them, but real love doesn’t leave bruises, make you fearful, manipulate you, or restrict you from becoming your best self.
These are truths that must come from caring adults. We must model healthy relationships for them and prepare them to date safely and responsibly before it’s too late.
Jason A. Dixon is the author of The Youth Advocate Blog. He passionately amplifies young people's experiences and critically examines the issues affecting them with inspiring and thought-provoking articles each month. Coach Jason is also one of the top youth motivational speakers for middle school, high school, and college students and the CEO and Founder of Inspire 2 Reach Higher. You can follow Coach Jason on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and YouTube.